You know what’s more difficult than asking a girl out on a date? Asking a girl you’ve never met, out on a date. It is really hard to get a girl to trust you and go out with you just through texting or chatting. And remember that there are so many other guys out there who are also trying to impress your girl on chat.
Step By Step Guide To Impress A Girl
(Right From the first Hi To A Physical Date)
Beware! Your First Online Chat Is Like Your First Physical Date
Finding a girl online is pretty simple. But remember if the girl you try to impress is someone, you don’t want to miss out (may be your secret crush) then you should be really careful. Because your first conversation is like your first date. Based on the impression you create you will be judged by her. And first impressions are very important. So plan ahead!
If you want to get a guaranteed response, it’s important to do some background work before firing your first hi. First thing to be accomplished is “Get familiar with her profile”.
Spend some time to go through her profile and get to know her interests, previous posts she shared, likes, dislikes, images, communities and conversations in which she is been active and so on. If she has integrated her pinterest profile with her Facebook, check out the pins she has added recently. All this will help you figure out what kind of person she is and will also help you see how compatible you guys are. But make sure you don’t like some of her posts or pictures because that will clearly tell her that you’ve been stalking her online.
Now you are going to make yourself familiar to her without dropping a direct Hi.
If she actively participates in any communities or pages, join in those and make comments for the posts which she comments. For example if she likes the pages Game of thrones or Go home you drunk, you should also like those pages and post your comments. Repeat this regularly at least for 2 weeks. The main idea behind these activities is making her believe that you two have many things in common. If everything goes well, she will notice you. Her next move will be checking your profile to know who you are. This is where your task of “Profile clean up” comes in.
So make sure your profile looks genuine and makes you seem like a charming guy.
You have successfully completed the pre-process. So now you are ready to send your first hi. But hang on. If you are going to ping a simple hi, I suggest you to drop that idea right now. Because you have a better way of sending it.
On an average, every girl on the social networking sites like facebook gets 10 hi messages every day from unknown guys. This is why you have to go with interesting chat starters like
– May I disturb the busiest person in the world for a minute to say hi
– It feels like I’ve seen you somewhere. Do you go to the Central Library often?
– Hey! Your profile is very interesting. So just wanted to see if you’ll be interested in striking a conversation.
Once you send a hi ,wait for the response patiently. Do not follow it up with many messages. It will irritate her and make you look desperate.
Turn into a good listener when she speaks. In order to acknowledge what she says, send your responses with some fun emoticons from time to time instead of responding with a boring ‘hmmm’. You can find hundreds of emoticons in online dating websites.
Never say “Then?” or “What else?” or “Hmmm”
If she is saying that to you, it means she’s bored and you have to talk about something more interesting.
If you feel like the conversation is going towards a dead end and you can’t think of anything interesting, it is always better to say that something came up and that you are busy. Tell her that you will text later. This is a million times better than prolonging the conversation with “Then”.
Surprise Her Often Through E-cards Or Messages
Since you can’t send chocolates or flowers, send her e-cards and cute messages.
Now, for most girls this will take a lot of convincing, but if she’s not comfortable with it, don’t force her. This will make her respect you more. And she may be okay with it in a couple of days.
Initially she will hesitate and will not agree to meet you. Try convincing her but again, do not force her. But when you do meet her, give her specific compliments like “You have beautiful eyes” or “You have lovely hair”. And whether it’s a restaurant or a cafe, let her pick.
Surprise Her With A Gift
If you really like her and feel that things could go somewhere, get her a small gift. Something personal will be better. It does not have to be too expensive. Girls love such unexpected gifts. And it will also let her know that you put a lot of thought into getting her what she likes.
Is there some idea that we missed? Let us know in the comments section.